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Ignoring someone can be quite difficult, especially if you constantly bump into that person on your way, if they try to talk to you or if they don't quite understand what's going on. But if you really need to ignore this person, then try to look very busy with your business, change your usual lifestyle and break off all contacts with this person. Check out the following tips on how to ignore someone.

Steps

1 Use body language

1. 1 Don't look this person in the eye. Don't look into the eyes - The best way ignore people. The moment your eyes meet, it will show that you are aware of this person's existence and your efforts to ignore him will be in vain. If this person is in close proximity to you, avoid making eye contact at all costs. Look at everyone except him, look in front of you or just at the floor.
   • If a person is shorter than you, then just look over his head. If it is higher, then do not look up.
   • If he is the same height as you and is standing nearby, try to portray a blank, indifferent look in case you accidentally meet his eyes.
2. 2 Pass by quickly. Another way to ignore a person is to walk as quickly as possible. This will show that you are a busy person, you have a lot of things to do, and that you have no desire to stop and talk to this person. Walk with your head held high and look like you're in a hurry to get things done, even if you're not.
   • If you see this person approaching you from afar, move away a little so as not to accidentally bump into him.
   • Don't swerve to get around your enemy. Walking to the other side of the road or taking a turn shows that you care. However, if you see him in the distance and are sure that he does not see you, then it is better to really turn out of your way and get out of sight.
3. 3 Pretend to be somewhat "closed". If you happen to find yourself next to this person, fold your arms across your chest, cross your legs if sitting, hunch a little, and generally do everything to appear completely unattainable. Your body should be saying, "Don't talk to me, buddy," and chances are your enemy will get the message.
   • Don't smile. Keep your face serious, even a little sullen, to show that you don't want to talk to anyone.
   • You can also present your face with a blank and meaningless expression, which will scare off anyone who tries to talk to you.
   • If you have long hair, bangs, or you are wearing a hat, then try to cover part of your face so that you do not have to look into the eyes of this person.
4. 4 Try to look like you're very busy. You can appear either closed off from everything around you, or very, very busy, so much so that you simply cannot spare a second of your time for idle chatter with this person.
   • If you are in this moment with friends, then turn to face them and begin to animatedly discuss and gesticulate something. This will show that you are too busy to talk or look in anyone's direction.
   • If you're alone, immerse yourself in a book, magazine, or textbook. You can even read out loud quietly, as if you are memorizing something.
   • Always hold many different objects in your hands. When you walk or sit, hold your phone, textbooks, or a large indoor flower in a pot. Seeing how busy you are, this person will not start a conversation with you.

2 Use technology

1. 1 Use your phone. This will help you ignore any person. There are several ways to use your phone for this purpose. First, you can stare at your phone to look busy as soon as you see your enemy. You can talk to someone on the phone, laugh wildly, or immerse yourself in correspondence with someone with whom you would like to communicate at the moment.
   • Change your phone number so that this person cannot call or text you.
   • Block him in your contacts so you don't receive messages from him.
   • Set your phone's ringing function to a time when you're near that person so you can pick up the phone and pretend you're talking to someone.
2. 2 Listen to music. Buy headphones and always wear them when you are alone, even if you are not listening to music. When you see your enemy, turn up the music and bob your head to the beat to look completely engrossed and busy with what you're doing and not wanting to spend a minute of your time talking.
   • If you really want to annoy, you can also close your eyes and sing along to the music so that the person does not have the slightest chance of talking to you.
3. 3 Ignore online. It is much easier to ignore someone online than to ignore someone online. real life, since you won't have to avoid meeting him. In this case, you just need to ignore emails, Facebook posts, Twitter notes and any other messages on the Internet.
   • Block this person in your in social networks. Make sure he can't contact you online.
   • Change yours email address and virtual nicknames, if necessary. Your enemy should not have a single way to contact you online.

3 Change your habits

1. 1 Take a different route. If you want to ignore someone and not have to meet them every time you walk, the easiest way is to simply change the route you usually take. If you always meet your enemy on the way during breaks between classes, then walk to another, more the long way to the next lesson so as not to see this person. If you regularly see him at work, walk down a different hallway and use a different restroom to keep contact to a minimum.
   • If you meet him wherever you go, then start driving your car.
   • If your enemy also changed his route to catch your eye again, then keep changing your route until he gets tired of this stupid game.
2. 2 Avoid places where your enemy likes to be. It's elementary. If you know his favorite bars, restaurants and parks, just don't go there anymore. It's not worth it, however, if you want to spend enough time there and continuously ignore this person, then you can try.
   • You can also remember the days when he usually is there. If he visits his favorite restaurant on weekends, and you really want to go there, then try to go there during the week.
   • If he only goes to his restaurant during happy hour, then you can go there a little later in the evening.
3. 3 Go to places where your enemy would never go. For example, if he prefers meat dishes, then look for restaurants in your area that serve vegetarian dishes. If he hates jazz, then go to a jazz concert in your area. If he is at enmity with one of your friends, then at this friend’s party you are unlikely to meet your enemy and will be able to have a good time.
   • Visiting places and establishments where this person does not go will not only help you ignore him, but will also open up new and unexplored horizons for you.

4 Ignore someone in any situation

1. 1 Ignore someone at school. This may not be so easy, especially if you are in the same class, but you can still find a way. Here's how to do it:
   • If you are sitting at the same desk as this person, move to another desk. If everyone in the class has their own seat, then ask the teacher to move you.
   • If you see him at the school cafeteria, sit at a different table.
   • If you meet him in the school hallway, just look straight ahead, as if you were in such a hurry to get to your next lesson that you didn’t notice how you passed this person.
   • If he asks you a question in class, turn your head to the side as if nothing happened.
2. 2 Ignore someone at work. This can be quite difficult, since you may be sitting next to your enemy or even working on the same project. Still, there are several ways to minimize contact.
   • Do not go into the office kitchen or break room while this person is there. Remember when he usually eats lunch in the kitchen or pours himself coffee, and try, if possible, to have lunch and rest at other times.
   • If you are sitting in the office next to your enemy, then try to concentrate on working on the computer, and also always have a pile of work papers on hand so that you can immerse yourself in them instead of looking in his direction.
   • This shouldn't affect your professional activity. If you need to discuss something with this person regarding work issues, discuss it. It will be even more unpleasant for him if you talk to him at work and completely ignore him outside the work space.
3. 3 Ignore someone socially. It's easy enough if you know what to do. You need to rely on your friends and try to stay as far away from this person as possible, even if you are in the same room. Here's what you can do:
   • Surround yourself with friends. Talk to them and laugh as if you've never heard anything funnier in your life.
   • Dance. If your enemy approaches you while music is playing, immediately grab your friend and go dance. If he does approach you on the dance floor, close your eyes as if you were enjoying the music.
   • If he is in the same circle of friends as you, then immerse yourself in an active conversation with one of your friends. When he starts talking, start scratching your ear or staring at the phone, in a word, act as if nothing is happening.

• Listen to your MP3 player to disengage from the person who is bothering you.
• If your enemy tries to talk to you, then take out your phone and pretend that you are answering the call.
• Make sure you have a good reason to ignore the person. (For example, if he wants to ask for forgiveness, then he can be given a chance).
• If you know that you can meet this person in a certain place (for example, in a store), then see if his car is in the store parking lot before going there.
• While at work, keep your door closed or pretend to be on the phone.
• Learn to see people out of the corner of your eye. Then you can pretend you don't see them.
• You still need to talk to your enemy if the reason for your ignoring is completely solvable.
• If the person you are angry with is sincerely repentant, then it is probably better for you to forgive him or have a serious conversation before cutting off all contact with him. Give him/her a chance - most likely it's just a misunderstanding.
• If the person you are trying to ignore calls you by name or otherwise gets your attention, there is an easy way out of this situation. Try to look very busy, say "Hello" absentmindedly and continue walking as if you have something urgent to do.
• If you don't like this person, then doing all this is even easier.

Warnings

• Ignoring someone who sincerely wants to talk to you brings a lot of pain and suffering to the person. Before you start ignoring someone, make sure he/she really deserves it.

You love. But the guy who carried you in his arms just recently stopped sending tender messages every five minutes, calling in the middle of the day to find out how you were doing, and yesterday he was completely late for a date. Your friends convince you that ignoring is the best way to tie the person you like to you.

Before you decide to take such steps, think about what result you want. Do you want attention and “Shakespearean” passions? Or do you need a reliable person you can rely on? Perhaps right now you are eager to prove to everyone that you can rock guys no worse than Irochka, whose fans no one can even count?

Passions “burn out” quickly, often leaving painful traces in the soul, and many fans do not give a feeling of happiness and love. And a person who is confident in his and your feelings will not communicate serious intentions five times a day. He understands that you can talk in the evening, in a calm atmosphere, and in the event of force majeure, you will turn to him, and if you don’t call in tears, then everything is fine. Mutual confidence is an element of a mature relationship.

Dasha drew attention to her new colleague at a seminar organized by the company for employees in one of the Turkish hotels. Having decided to outshine everyone with a beautiful, even tan at the evening banquet, she carefully smeared herself with cream and headed to the beach. When she returned to her room, she discovered that she was covered in spots like a cheetah - the tube turned out to be self-tanner. There was no talk of going to the event.

The next day, a handsome colleague approached her himself and asked why she was not there. He was pretty tired during the evening from the flirting attempts of the entire female part of the team, and singled out Dasha from the crowd only because she didn’t try to attract his attention.

Ignoring a man is necessary when he is too accustomed to female attention. Dasha did not plan this option in advance; in this case, the situation developed naturally and naturally, which only enhanced the effect.

Ignoring will be effective if your man is a hunter by nature.

He will put all his strength into achieving the goal, winning, winning. Then interest fades away, he cares little about the result. This feature can be quickly identified: he spends days and nights at work launching a project, but a week after success he has already started something new. Or, as a child, I devoted a lot of energy and time to clog training, but after winning a city competition, I abruptly quit. As soon as such a man realizes that he has conquered you, his feelings will be replaced by indifference. In this case, you need to strictly follow the chosen tactics, be sure to take pauses. Light flirting with men is quite acceptable - competition is a very powerful incentive for such a person. The main thing is to stay within the bounds of decency - he will not forgive an offended sense of property.

The basic principle of ignore

You already understand that before you use ignore, you need to arouse the man’s interest. Look how children do it - they are born psychologists. A little girl came to the playground where other children were playing. They don't pay attention to her, then, seeing big beetle, says loudly: “I’m afraid!” And that's it, it's done! Half of the boys immediately run to scare her with bugs, the other half protects her. Then she turns around and goes to the swing, the boys throw bugs and start arguing about who will swing her.

Give a man the opportunity to be strong, smart and courageous: ask a colleague to explain a diagram to you, ask for advice on car maintenance, ask to accompany you from a party because it’s late. Ask for help on small things several times, thank them, and be sure to tell them how you liked the result. And then abruptly and without comment, stop these requests, greet politely when you meet, but do not engage in conversation, sweetly apologizing, and agree on a lot of things to do. But keep him confident in your sympathies, smile and look into his eyes. You will see that he himself will begin to look for a reason to attract your attention. Ignore is best used after successful flirting, perhaps even at the beginning of a romantic relationship.

If you hurry, you can scare off a man with your indifference.

Hidden threat

Ignoring tactics can bring great results, but they must be used very carefully. You must understand that this is a type of manipulation. A man will be interested in you, but this does not mean that sympathy and love will automatically appear. Their place can be taken by painful attachment, turning into dependence. A man artificially deprived of freedom of choice can become obsessive, suspicious and even aggressive. In such a situation, both of you will suffer, and there will be no happy ending; the result of the relationship will not bring happiness. Be careful if you are trying to improve an existing relationship by ignoring them. Indifference does not intrigue close people, but hurts them.

You have already figured out in what cases it is worth using such a technique as ignoring a man, you have studied the “pitfalls” and are ready to act.
Be gentle, sweet and polite if you refuse to meet him. Be sure to express your sincere regret that the circumstances have turned out this way.

You can’t refuse constantly - the man will decide that you are not interested in him. It’s better to refuse the meeting several times, and reschedule a couple of times to a time convenient for you. You can agree to a date, but call at the last moment and apologize, citing a change in plans.

It is important that the initiator of the date you agree to is a man. But give it some time Special attention details. If you are going for a country walk, take food with you: bake pies or simply cut sandwiches. For a walk around the city, make an approximate route and find out a couple of things interesting facts about streets, houses, monuments, or come up with a funny “real life” story that will enliven the conversation. You should not go to the theater or cinema on your first dates - there will be no opportunity to communicate there. An exception may be the option of visiting a cafe or restaurant during the evening. Then you will have one more convenient topic for communication and exchange of impressions. The date you give a man using the ignore tactics should be very bright, memorable and unusual.

On dates during this period, you should not be sarcastic or capricious. A man should see everything positive features the character that he has been seeking for so long.

Using the ignore strategy correctly, you can get ideal relationship. Remember that this is a delicate and complex process that will require iron willpower from you. And if you want to attract the attention of a handsome, but timid and shy guy, it’s better to choose a different path.

Finally - an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to “read” men. It’s like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man and you immediately know everything about him and understand what’s on his mind. You could get any man and have an ideal relationship, and you would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you can’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

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Learning to ignore people who evoke only negative emotions is quite easy. However, there is no need to rush. Think about whether you will regret your decision, because there may not be a chance to take back your words. Reflect on the purpose of ignoring, be honest with yourself. Maybe you just want to attract the attention of certain people?

If you become the object of ridicule, try to react to them differently. Resist your embarrassment or anger and act as if the remark did not apply to you. There is another way: to calmly agree with all his barbs. In any case, don't show that you're hurt. The offender will probably stop and you won't have to ignore him.

Keep in mind: you need to ignore only when you want to completely free yourself from unpleasant people, as if you had never met.

What to do if annoying acquaintances demand attention?

So, you've weighed everything carefully and are still confident that ignoring is your option. If people you don’t want to communicate with know you superficially, then

• Look into their eyes as little as possible; when you do, don’t smile.
• keep your distance from these people; when passing by, don’t linger.
• do something else. If you read a book or listen to music while wearing headphones, there is less chance of being disturbed than if your face looks bored and your eyes look one way or the other.
• take the necessary action on social media.

If you don't like one of your employees, limit yourself to discussing business issues.

It may also happen that you want to ignore old friends. In this case, we advise you to talk confidentially. Maybe they found themselves in a difficult situation? It is likely that you will understand each other, and the relationship will become the same.

Unfortunately, this is not always the case. If you find yourself in the middle of a real conflict, which has the only way out - ignoring, directly tell your former friends about it.

Remember: you must be straightforward but polite. Do not be ironic, be serious, so that your words are not taken as ridicule or a childish whim.

No need to wait for yours former friends They will immediately agree with you, and you will part peacefully. You will probably need a lot of patience to completely eliminate these people from your life. Don't answer their calls or messages. Do they write offensive things to you? Don't give in. Otherwise, you will not get rid of tension, but will increase it. If this doesn't work, say you will complain to the appropriate authorities. Let people who are unpleasant to you understand that you are determined.

Try to discuss the situation only with loved ones. By attracting strangers, you risk becoming the center of an entire epic. Answer questions concisely, and gradually they will disappear.

Ignoring people is an extreme measure. Let it be expressed not only by words, but also by actions, therefore:

• Avoid potential meeting places (for example, a bus stop where you have often seen each other before, or a favorite cafe). If you do collide, limit yourself to nodding your head. Stop and ask “How are you?” will be redundant. We also do not recommend turning away if you have already been seen. Behave calmly and respectably.
• Ask mutual friends not to invite you to the same events (except for a large event like a graduation or wedding, when you don't have to talk to every one of three hundred people).
• think about what else unites you, and protect yourself as much as possible from unnecessary communication.

Keep in mind that it is equally important to expel people who are unpleasant to you from your own head. This is not easy if they previously played a significant role in your life. In order not to be distracted by memories, keep yourself busy, not with routine, but with something interesting. Buy a book of poems that you’ve been wanting to read for a long time, try cooking a new dish, go to the zoo. New impressions will not take long to arrive!

It has been noticed that cleansing the mind, sometimes in a surprising way, transforms an unpleasant situation or removes a person from your life, or relationships improve naturally.

Ignoring and unrequited love.

The sphere of personal relationships is special. Unfortunately, ignoring a person who aroused considerable hopes (and, as it turned out, in vain) is more difficult than deleting someone from your list of VKontakte friends. Therefore, the techniques listed below may only be partially effective. Time will help with the rest.

• Don’t blame yourself for falling in love with the “wrong” person.
• tune in to distance: reduce the number of meetings, calls, messages. When going to the theater, cinema or on a holiday, offer company to other people.
• don't run away from new acquaintances. Just don't forget about sincerity! It’s not worth entering into a relationship specifically to get the past out of your head, or dating “out of spite” for an unsuccessful past. Concentrate only on what interests you new person or not.

The situation is easier if the object of your feelings is from unfamiliar people, with whom you have never spoken and only said hello twice. Avoid possible meetings and as soon as you notice that you are mentally returning to him, distract yourself (see the last paragraph of the 3rd point).

How to learn to ignore a person if the opposite situation arises (you yourself have become the object of the experience)?

• do not accept gifts, whatever their price.
• actively communicate with other representatives of a different gender. You can just pretend, the main thing is that the person you don’t like sees it. His confidence will immediately decrease.
• be constant in failure. A person must understand that your dry answers are not at all coquetry and not a sign of a bad mood.

What to do if they ignore you?

Suddenly you realized that a friend or close person gradually disappears from your life. Maybe you yourself gave him a reason - you forgot about the promise, caused jealousy, did not congratulate him on his important event? Admit your guilt and try to correct the mistake. In the latter case, buy a gift and a card. Of course, congratulations are good on time, but late attention is better than nothing. One way or another, you must show that you are sincerely sorry and that friendship with this person is very important to you.

If you are sure that you have done nothing wrong, talk to him. Be careful with reproaches and other negativity, because this will only increase the problem. The person who cares about you will not miss the chance to bring you back into his life.

There are other ways to ignore someone, but remember that solving a problem is always preferable to avoiding it.

Good luck!

We are all very different. Therefore, we strive to communicate with some people, and some we don’t even want to look at. Sometimes contact with a person only brings us disappointment, pain and irritation. Sometimes we try to improve relationships, but this again leads to negative emotions. So what to do? Continue to endure or stop communicating? Of course, the second option. What if the “unpleasant” one further tries to impose his society? There is only one way out - to learn how to ignore him so as to stop any attempts at communication.

The meaning of ignoring

Typically, people start to ignore someone for one of two reasons:

• The desire to stop communicating.
• The desire to show your resentment, point out mistakes and restore relationships (teach a lesson).

How to ignore someone

So, you decided to show your boyfriend or girlfriend that you can no longer tolerate these antics. How to do this:

• First, you should understand that stopping noticing a person is a serious matter. Firstly, it’s not easy, and secondly, the “unpleasant” person may actually never communicate with you again. It is better not to resort to the method of ignoring for an hour, day or week in order to attract someone's attention or point out the guilt of the offender.
• Before you stop noticing a person, try to put yourself in his position and understand why he behaves this way. Maybe he had good reasons for doing this? What if you provoked this behavior by doing something wrong?
• Before you ignore a guy or girl, ask what is the reason for such wrong attitude towards you. There are situations when you can discuss everything and forget. At least make an attempt to talk, because it’s not every day that you throw a person out of your life without warning.
• So, you have firmly decided that you will be better off without this person. Be direct. If you couldn’t improve the relationship, firmly tell the person that you don’t want to know him anymore. Don't show your anger, just present it with a fact. Stay polite. What some people don't realize is that you've clearly thought through your position and are confident in your decision before you make such a statement. Therefore, after such words, they will continue to seek communication with you. How to ignore a girl or guy? The main thing is to be consistent. Don't read this person's messages, don't answer the phone when he calls, don't answer anything. It happens that a meeting with an “unpleasant” still cannot be avoided; if it is, for example, your colleague, you will not change your job because of some intriguer. Do not argue during these meetings, do not pay any attention to this person at all. If she gets too persistent, tell her to leave you alone once and for all.
• You must be prepared for a siege. When the bore realizes that he has been ignored, he will be very angry. Perhaps rumors will begin to circulate about you. Don’t hide from your friends that you don’t like this person and you’re trying to get rid of his unpleasant company, then they won’t believe the various nasty things they might say about you. Just don’t try to win your friends over to your side, let them form their own opinion about this person.
• When meeting, try to feel normal. Overcome awkwardness. Forget about etiquette, if you don’t want to say hello, don’t do it. When, for example, you need to communicate with him for work, try to keep this communication to a minimum. And if you bump into someone somewhere in a store or on the street, pretend that you didn’t notice this person. If he comes up and starts talking to you about something, as if nothing had happened, tell him that you are in too much of a hurry and you don’t have time to talk.
• Limit access to yourself and your data on social networks. Privacy settings give you the ability to make sure that you are visible only to your family and friends.

Now you know how to ignore people and there will no longer be unpleasant, intrusive individuals in your life.

Natalya Kaptsova - practitioner of integral neuroprogramming, expert psychologist

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Silence and ignoring are a powerful tool of influence

Such a phenomenon as “ignoring” is very common in relationships between close (and not so close) people.

Why is this tool used, and in what cases is it effective?

• Resentment. Silence and demonstrative “ignoring” of a partner are a common way to show your resentment. But it is extremely rarely effective. As a rule, a sincere conversation with a partner is more effective.
• Response to obsession. It is demonstrated as a request to “slow down.”
• Complete ignorance at all levels of relationships. This type of ignore literally means “go away, I don’t want to see you anymore.” Unfortunately, not everyone succeeds in ignoring correctly - and, as a result, ignoring is perceived by a man as a sign of attention and an attempt to tease him.
• Ignore as a sign of attention. Hundreds of articles have been written and dozens of trainings have been conducted for women on the topic of how to ignore a man in order to attract him. In most cases, for a man (who is a hunter by nature), the method works flawlessly and is much more effective than intrusiveness or overt availability.

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• If you haven't yet told your partner that he is the fifth wheel in the cart of your life, now is the time to do so. Sincerely, openly and calmly explain to him that you no longer come to see him, and that this is not a game, and not an attempt to add pepper to your feelings. intimate relationships, but a very real and 100% break in relations.
• Stop receiving calls from your partner , respond to his letters and messages.
• Categorically do not stoop to any emotional reaction to your partner’s actions. . As a rule, a man offended by being ignored (whose honor was damaged by the status of an “abandoned man”) makes active attempts to return the woman. Or he does the same thing, but through insults and humiliation, bringing the woman to tears, quarrels, and so on. Don't give in: remain extremely polite and distinctly cool. Any emotions indicate your concern.
• If you live together and cannot leave immediately, move to another room and insert a lock . Now you are neighbors. “Hello” and “Bye” will be enough until you leave.
• Even if he behaves like a “last bastard,” do not stoop to his level. Don't tell everyone what a nasty guy he is. The information that you broke up because it would be better is enough.
• If your partner goes beyond boundaries in his attempts to win you back, or openly insults you and uses very low methods of achieving your goal, write a statement to the police. and demonstrate to your partner the seriousness of your intentions (it is not necessary to submit a statement - usually it is enough to write it and “accidentally” forget it on the table before leaving).
• Don’t hesitate and don’t get confused when meeting with a partner to whom you announced your separation . You announced the breakup and don't owe him anything else. There is no point in being shy, feeling out of place, or tormented by awkwardness. If you don’t want to greet him, you don’t need to do it. However, just try not to cross paths with him, so as not to create these awkward situations.
• Limit access to your social media pages . He also doesn’t need to see news about your life.
• Strictly do not call or write to your partner, do not contact him with any requests. . Even if you desperately need help and he is the only one who can help. Because he is not the only one!
• Never fall for the "Let's be friends" trick. Such friendship is possible only in one case - when the partners no longer have feelings for each other, and there are already new halves. If your partner still loves you, then such a proposal means only one thing - he hopes that over time he will be able to win you back.
• Analyze - are you doing everything right? Maybe through some actions you still give your partner hope of returning back to his arms?
• Don’t even think about asking your friends and mutual acquaintances about him. If you are determined to break up and want the man to disappear from your life, forget about him and warn your friends that this is an undesirable topic of conversation.

It is far from uncommon for such cases when a woman simply falls in love with another, and she has to ignore her partner who has become unnecessary so that he “gets out of the way and makes way” for a new person.

If this is your case, remember that the man who loved you is not to blame for your - new love. Try to find the most.

Have there been similar situations in your life? And how did you get out of them? Share your stories in the comments below!