The individual who takes no interest in his fellow men suffers the greatest difficulties in life and inflicts the greatest injustice on others.

Alfred Adler

The once unknown American farmer from Missouri, Dale Carnegie, gained worldwide fame by offering one of the most remarkable methods for teaching adults and experienced people in the art of management. “How to Win Friends and Influence People” is the title of this wonderful book, translated into dozens of languages ​​around the world and published in millions of copies.

So, the first rule of his book: be sincerely interested in other people! One cannot help but quote from Carnegie's book: "Why not learn the techniques of the greatest friend-winner the world has ever known? Who is he? You may meet him on the street tomorrow. When you get within ten feet of him, he will begin to wag his tail. If you stop and pet him, he will be overjoyed, trying his best to show you how much he loves you, and you know that there is no ulterior motive behind this show of affection on his part: he does not want to sell you some property and has no intention of marrying you.

Have you ever thought that a dog is the only animal that does not have to work in order to live? The chicken must lay eggs, the cow must give milk, the canary must sing. And a dog earns its living by giving you only love." Well said, right? And adding anything to this would be absurd, let us remember that one of the most important rules of the art of management is to be sincerely interested in other people! Many of those around you Our people are somehow interesting, worthy of respect, and one of the greatest joys in life is communicating with interesting people.

Although, one should still give one practical piece of advice from the arsenal of the art of management, familiar to many experienced managers. It is very useful for the common cause, it is reasonable and, most importantly, ethical - to oblige the secretary to prepare information about all informal events and news in the team at the beginning of the working day: the birth of a child, a wedding, the death of a veteran, retirement, etc. And having spent no more than 5-10 minutes before the start of his working day on telephone congratulations or condolences, the manager deservedly acquires a reputation as a sensitive and warm-hearted person who is always aware of all events in the life of the team. This simple and easy technique creates an atmosphere of psychological comfort, helps people realize their importance and involvement in the life of the team, and increases motivation and work spirit. Such daily informal communication between the manager and the team undoubtedly raises his authority and develops such important character traits in the manager as politeness, friendliness and sincere interest in the person. Friendliness and personal charm (we will talk about this a little later) are part of the job responsibilities of any leader.

Another technique from the art of establishing good, trusting relationships between boss and subordinates is very effective, although it is unjustifiably rarely used. During a frank and friendly conversation with an employee, the range of his interests, problems and hopes is determined, and in the final part of the conversation, the manager asks to put what was said in writing, especially emphasizing the employee’s interested view on the prospects for the organization’s work and his specific role in improving work processes. When drawing up such a report, the employee feels the significance of his role in the organization’s activities, systematizes his proposals and often develops unconventional methods for solving production problems. By analyzing urgent tasks and offering his own options for solving problems, the employee, as a rule, takes on certain obligations, and the manager acquires a reputation as an approachable person who is interested in the common cause. Unfortunately, relationships between people are often built on selfish interests - whether this person is needed or not needed for my purposes. If you need it, then you should take possession of it, subordinate it to your interests in any way; if not, then such a person is only a hindrance, and you need to get rid of him in any way. Alas, interest in a person is often proportional to his weight in society; in times of trouble, the number of “true friends”, their friendliness and attention noticeably decreases. Hypocritical respect for the strong and disdain for the weak is akin to betrayal and causes disgust as everything deceitful, slippery and false. In winter, we often admire the frost on the branches of trees and the icicles on the roofs, which shine like real diamonds under the rays of the sun,

In the most general terms, interest is a necessary element of an adaptive reaction to something new, and initiative is a manifestation of the arbitrariness of interest.

What appears outwardly as interest can be of a very different nature. Conventionally, we can subdivide pre-reflex, reflex and conscious externally observable signs of interest. Each of these levels has its own qualitatively different implementation mechanism. What they all have in common is that all of these are manifestations of the body’s adaptability: reactions that increase adaptability to new conditions. And therefore, it is especially significant to trace how the reactions of individual adaptation became more complex in the course of evolutionary improvement.

Psychology usually considers interest as a manifestation of the operation of a “black box”, i.e. without defining a specific mechanism, which leads to many uncertainties and inadequacies of the real organization. Thus, interest is often attributed to emotions. But emotion manifests itself subjectively as a conscious style of behavior. Before awareness, behavior is characterized by a “searching” style of behavior that precedes the “orienting reflex.”

Search behavior in protozoa exists at an embryonic stage. For example, predatory ciliates are capable of actively searching for prey. Searching behavior of animals:

Animal behavior is not always a passive reaction to external stimuli. In many cases, having reached a state of specific readiness for some type of activity (for example, readiness for reproduction), it actively searches for stimuli under the influence of which this activity could be carried out.... The search phase ends when the animal reaches a situation in which the next link in this chain of reactions can occur. ... The search phase, like the final act, is built on an innate basis. During ontogenesis, this basis is supplemented by acquired reactions. It is search behavior that is the means of individual adaptation of animals to the environment, and this adaptation is infinitely diverse in its forms.

Here we could draw a fundamental line so as not to call active reactions the dissolution of limestone by acid, and in general all interactions in which we arbitrarily distinguish the active role of something. But in practical terms, this distinction is completely unnecessary. The division into living and nonliving is the lot of philosophers, so we will simply talk about different levels of organization of adaptability to the new, as a result of which the object of our attention turns out to be successful in this or for the observer loses the form of its existence.

Interest is crucial for individual adaptability. Interest and its meaning:

The dependence experienced or perceived by a person on what he needs or what he is interested in gives rise to a focus on the corresponding object. In the absence of something for which a person has a need or interest, a person experiences more or less painful tension, anxiety, from which he naturally strives to free himself. From here, at first, a more or less indefinite dynamic tendency arises, which turns into aspiration when the point towards which everything is directed is already somewhat clearly visible. As trends become objectified, i.e. the object to which they are directed is determined, they become more and more conscious motives of activity, more or less adequately reflecting the objective driving forces of human activity. Since a tendency usually causes activity aimed at satisfying the need or interest that caused it, emerging but inhibited motor moments are usually associated with it, which enhance the dynamic, directed nature of the tendencies.

In ever-expanding contact with the outside world, a person encounters ever new objects and aspects of reality. When, due to certain circumstances, something acquires some significance for a person, it can arouse his interest - a specific personality focus on it.

An attempt to reduce interest to a need, defining it solely as a conscious need, is untenable. Awareness of a need can arouse interest in an object that can satisfy it, but an unconscious need as such is still a need (transforming into a desire), and not an interest.

This is approximately how it is possible to correlate the usual associations from the word “interest” and those processes that are determined by the mechanisms of adaptiveness in the body.

With the change of periods of development in ontogenesis, more and more advanced levels of manifestation of interest arise, repeating in the development of the species, from pre-reflexive to the level of consciousness. The “orienting reflex” turns out to be the boundary of the adaptive gap between the level of consciousness and the previous ones.

The first hereditarily predisposed reactions of exploratory activity in relation to the environment form the primary structures of the brain - in the form of sets of primitives of perception from the outside and action from the other. It is difficult, but we can say that the tracking orientation of the sensory organs embodies the simplest level of manifestation of interest, although for parents observing the child’s reactions this is quite obvious.

Secondary structures are formed in acts of imitation and this period is characterized by the reflex formation of the first skills. This is a period of “trusting learning”, when the skills acquired by parents of the most important and basic methods of survival are transferred to children. At this time, subjective images are formed that are associated with a certain meaning, which is transmitted authoritarianly from parents and is supported by its own system of significance based on recognizers of deviations in homeostasis parameters.

Sufficient maturation of the frontal lobes and the mechanisms for connecting subjective images to them in order to comprehend the most relevant of them characterizes the emergence of a new level - comprehension of what is happening with a subjective voluntary assignment of meaning. A period of initiative arises in which previously perceived norms of behavior are rethought whenever they turn out to be relevant enough for awareness.

Thus, initiative is a manifestation of an arbitrary level of interest.

Authoritarianism directly conflicts with interest as a manifestation of the period of initiative. In many cases, the child begins to realize that, perhaps, previously perceived behavioral stereotypes do not suit him and attempts are made to act differently. Increased skepticism develops, even to the point of complete denial, about what has been perceived authoritarianly, supported by an exciting sense of the possibility of doing it differently.

This feeling of one's new capabilities is the strongest positive emotional factor, supported by successful attempts. Here, stating the superiority of one’s original behavior is the strongest motivating stimulus for the development of volition and initiative. At the same time, too frequent failures and, especially, authoritarian critical assessment can block the motivation for arbitrariness. Motivation, interests, beliefs:

Subjectively - for the person himself - interests are revealed in the positive emotional tone that the process of cognition acquires, in the desire to become more deeply acquainted with an object that has acquired significance, to learn even more about it, to understand it. ... Interests force a person to actively seek ways and means to satisfy his thirst for knowledge and understanding. Satisfying interest in an object of stable significance, as a rule, does not lead to the extinction of interest, but internally rebuilding, enriching and deepening it, causes the emergence of new interests that correspond to a higher level of cognitive activity.

In the general development of voluntariness for a variety of contexts, conditions and circumstances, they begin to highlight what remains highly motivating interest and what is blocked by failures or does not appear at all in the field of conscious attention. This leads to different directions of personal interests. Predominant interests:

Trying to find answers to these questions, we step by step delve into a specific state, in which we simultaneously experience a feeling of some inhibition, abstraction from the place and time of our stay with a high concentration on images recalled from memory, associations that the mind tries to organize in search of non-obvious connections phenomena and our impression, which we express with the exclamation: “That’s what’s interesting!” This means that it’s interesting when you want to find something, understand something, learn something from what makes up the endless world around us.

One of the factors supporting the development of arbitrariness, helping to find an alternative to the authoritarian imposed, is arrogance. And, of course, arrogance introduces a special antagonism between authoritarianism and initiative. Any extreme in this leads to a catastrophic disruption of adaptability at the level of both the individual and society so that the balance is maintained in their confrontation with the correction of the consequences of both excessive authoritarianism and anarchic manifestations of initiative.

The question of the acceptability of an initiative is very context-dependent: for different conditions and circumstances, the balance can be shifted very significantly. This is manifested in the popular phrase: “Initiative is punishable.” IN in its original form the phrase looked somewhat different, namely “in the army, initiative is punishable.” The expression appeared among military personnel and meant that any initiative shown by a junior in rank leads to the fact that he will be forced to implement it, and will also bear full responsibility for possible failure.
An initiative can meet with resistance both from authoritarianism and conflict of interests of other individuals, and cause an internal deviation from the usual. In all cases, this can be overcome by willpower, i.e. realized arbitrariness of choice, which requires the development of a certain skill from complete lack of will to high self-discipline. The implementation of such arbitrariness depends on many subjectively assessed factors (see Laziness).

The social specificity of the manifestation of personal interest and initiative in the conditions of a specific social culture can be traced using the example of the last historical period of Russia's development.

The period from the revolution of 1917 is characterized by extremely high authoritarianism in the imposition of their ideas by the organizers of the revolution, breaking the previous established culture of relationships and forming a new one, in which the main thing was unquestioning submission to the ideals, goals and specific directives of the new doctrine of government. The principle of management was purely voluntaristic and maximally centralized.

In order for someone’s initiative to be accepted and approved, trust in the initiator was necessary, his condition of fanatical loyalty, but even at the same time the initiative was punishable in the sense of the first, military application of this phrase. The hierarchy of power with its centralization leads to the fact that each immediate superior, who turns out to be insufficiently competent in predicting the specifics of an initiative, is forced to trust his subordinate, but at the same time his mistakes are blamed as a complete evil, and not as an inevitable negative result in everything new. Adaptability in this case is functionally lost because their role in assessing the unaccounted factor disappears; they become a more general negative, blocking the desire to take initiative and try something. Even if the mistake could be corrected by taking into account a new factor and doing it more correctly, then after punishment this path becomes dangerous and is avoided.

Although in some particularly important areas the possibility of error is taken into account by the authoritarian authorities, who are ready to make a certain number of mistakes, their competence does not allow them to assess how many errors in this direction are inevitable and a punitive measure of restraint arises from a certain level of tolerance. Not to mention the psychological nuances of relationships, the main thing is that initiative becomes undesirable unless it definitely promises success. The number of initiatives in the development of anything becomes low. As a result, the development of new directions requires extra efforts and increased resources. Otherwise, the style “the best is the enemy of the good” and the corresponding passivity in creativity are established.

Each link of management turns out to be endowed with some authoritarian power, largely irresponsible because the ultimate responsibility falls on the executors (the switchman is to blame). Habitual avoidance of creativity, with the necessary persistence in achieving arbitrariness (arrogance), causes disadaptation of such skills not only individually, but also socially determined. At the same time, the use of voluntaristic power at each level of management turns out to be quite safe for the boss, which provokes many fraudulent actions from theft (everything around is the people’s, everything around is mine) to services for bribes. This becomes an element of the generally accepted culture of imperious irresponsibility so inevitably that all attempts to stop it on the part of the highest authorities turn out to be ineffective.

An example of such a situation is execution for spikelets “Decree on spikelets” and In 1932, the “law on three spikelets” was issued in the USSR:

Perhaps one of the most tragic pages in the history of the Russian peasantry was the time of repression that began after the adoption of the resolution of the Central Executive Committee and the Council of People's Commissars of the USSR on August 7, 1932 “On the protection of the property of state enterprises, collective farms and cooperation and the strengthening of public (socialist) property.”

Despite any repression and threats, the theft of what ends up in the zone of authoritarian power of a given level remains practically ineradicable.

As a result of a strong imbalance in the balance of authoritarianism and initiative, several generations of thieves and passive people arose, even at the lowest level (who also did not refrain from stealing what was in their area of ​​​​responsibility), and any other style of behavior turned out to be incompatible with this. This, in entire important industries, control over which was lost by the highest planning authority, led to a catastrophic lag compared to countries where there was no such terror in relation to the initiative: radio electronics and its components, circuitry, computer technology, household appliances and products, cars, etc. .d.

The military reacted to the scientists' proposal with a fair amount of skepticism. They were not happy about the possible connection of their networks with economic management, because in this case they would take responsibility for the development of the country. One of the authors of the initiative - Soviet scientist, engineer-colonel Anatoly Titov - later recalled that officials were also afraid of becoming unnecessary if their functions were performed by machines.
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It is interesting that the principle of centralizing the system of transmission, storage and processing of data, which, according to Kharkevich, can only function in a socialist state, was contrary to the words of Norbert Wiener, the founder of cybernetics. He believed that his social theory would not strengthen, but rather destroy the vertical system of control, allowing different segments of the population to freely communicate and exchange opinions.
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Scientists proposed to Kosygin a new plan for automating economic planning - now on the basis of a single network separate from the military, specially created for these purposes. The plan, drawn up after studying the work of almost a hundred government organizations, envisaged the construction of 100-200 large data processing centers in large cities, to which approximately 20 thousand small ones would be connected via high-speed communication lines.
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Glushkov believed that all information should be stored in a central digital structure and retrieved from there almost instantly. Moreover, his system was supposed to manage all processes in the state, right down to automatically creating a daily schedule for each employee.
Glushkov’s proposal immediately found opponents, primarily enterprise managers and officials. They believed that the system would take over their functions and weaken government control over information. Liberals saw it as an attempt by conservatives to centralize the economy as opposed to the gradual introduction of market elements into it.
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Glushkov faced opposition from departments whose data transmission networks needed to be combined into a single system. They delayed and sabotaged the process in every possible way, shifting responsibility onto each other. The problem was that the plan had to be implemented simultaneously at all enterprises, because if several links were lost, it would be impossible to form a single network.

Science in Russia was and remains organized by the same authoritarian vertical of power with all the ensuing consequences and lag in all sectors that are not specifically supervised at the highest level. All institutions dependent on science (medicine, pedagogy, design bureaus) find themselves in even greater trouble because, in addition to the lag of science itself, there is the influence of authoritarianism itself.

Art also inherits the authoritarian basis of organization in such a way that cinema turns out to be irresistibly conservative and lags behind the new acquisitions of world culture; publishing houses and performing arts are lagging far behind.

After all, it is in creativity, scientific, engineering or artistic, that the most important factor is originality, subjective arbitrariness, which is heuristically associated with that freedom, without which there is no initiative, no cognitive errors and no successes of perfection.

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The more attached you become to a person, the more interest you show in him, the more power you give him over you, beginning to depend on him. Of course, I understand that all people are different, there are those who are especially amorous and those who simply become attached to people, often confusing love with obsession, although these two concepts are close to each other. Such is the human essence, such is his natural feature that he either suppresses someone and dominates over this person, or they do the same in relation to him, and it is clear who feels more discomfort. Of course, being dependent is not very good, I would even say that it is terrible, because in this case the person will constantly be left in the dust, and this is not the best and not the most worthy life. With all this, a person who is dependent on another also has a greatly reduced self-esteem, as a result of which it is simply unrealistic to correct anything for the better on his own. Such people often come to a psychologist and ask for help, if, of course, they have the courage to do so, and do not continue to endure a miserable existence.

An experienced psychologist will certainly help, but in principle it is possible to do without him, if from the very beginning you do not show great interest in people, or at least not demonstrate it. It’s not for nothing that the famous Russian poet said: the less we love a woman, the more she likes us. These are truly golden words, but they are not entirely fair to women, who essentially could say the same thing about men, and in general this applies to all human relationships, not just relationships between the sexes. Therefore, loving and generally paying excessive attention to anyone is highly discouraged, and even more so you cannot trust anyone and open up to no one. Of course, if the slobbering melancholic in front of you can do this, he may not take advantage of it, but will he always be like this, because when the person in front of you is in the palm of your hand, it is so tempting to take advantage of this and betray him? Even I could not answer this question with one hundred percent certainty, since I know what attention, respect and love from another makes a person. I know what those who see the weakness of others in relation to themselves and their personality experience, and I have seen many times the consequences of the attachment of one person to another.

If there is such a person in this world whom you can sincerely and passionately love more than anyone else, then it is yourself, so you need to pay more attention to yourself and take better care of yourself, and do everything first of all for yourself. And in general, never compare anyone with yourself, this is an unequal comparison, there is no one better than you and cannot be, and even more so, never consider yourself worse than others, this is generally a crime against yourself. The rest need to be given moderate attention, exactly as much as they deserve, and people deserve little, and all without exception, believe me. There is, of course, a difference between people, if you compare them with each other, someone can and should be respected more, that is, it is beneficial to do this, because we respect strength first of all, and force can always be used. But for some, just any kind of attitude is enough, for which you will already be respected, appreciated and even loved, and that’s right, loved for the fact that you see little in a person and do not value him highly.

In general, if you take a closer look at life, then everything I’m saying now is all so obvious that discussing it from any scientific point of view is even ridiculous, we don’t prove the very fact of life, since it is obvious to us, so here are the nuances of our life is no less obvious. Nevertheless, people have made the same mistakes, and in fact continue to make them to this day, and what can they do if they are brought up with qualities that people in their natural environment cannot possess. There have been so many snotty films alone, but if you watch them constantly, your already weak psyche will become even weaker, and many simply expect from this world what does not happen in it at all. This concerns, of course, primarily the relationships between people who should be somewhat at a distance, but in fact people become attached to other people, and the one who is more attached begins to suffer, which is not surprising, moreover, such a person can be betrayed, and betrayed cruelly . Smooth and balanced relationships should be everywhere and in everything; you cannot open your soul and trust other people, no matter who they are.

A friend is a person who knows more about you than anyone else, and most importantly, knows your weaknesses. A friend has the most opportunities and, most importantly, the temptation to betray you, and if you are friends with someone, you should always know how to destroy your friend if he gets tired of your friendship. Let everyone, without exception, understand that there are certain boundaries of your interests in other people, beyond which you lose this very interest in them, let them value friendship and relationships with you, let them value your attention, let them be afraid that next time you will not pay no attention to them. They must meet your expectations if they want to do business with you. You cannot give your attention in any quantity to everyone without exception, otherwise people will stop appreciating it. All this can be done by simply understanding that you will get more from this behavior than from trying to please everyone or, God forbid, running after someone. People don't value or respect what comes easy to them, including the attention of others.

So, don’t run after anyone and never, don’t allow this to happen, you will kill the person in yourself, you will lose self-confidence and self-respect, and when you don’t respect yourself, no one will respect you. Give other people half the attention that you give to yourself, let the rest be like an unfinished gestalt and only tease people, your attention must be earned - remember this.

Women often wonder how to determine a man’s feelings for her? Are his intentions serious? Are there ways in which you can notice a man's interest in a woman? What behavior or signs of attention should the partner show in this case? Psychologists have found these answers.

Everyone's life circumstances are different. Male behavior depends on many factors that influence the manifestation of certain feelings. He can express restraint, be shy or, on the contrary, emotional during communication. The duration of your communication with him also decides a lot.

But, in general, according to psychologists, there are certain signs by which you can easily determine a man’s genuine interest. Let's consider the most pronounced of them.

Shows a clear interest in your life

At first, questions may be asked casually, but then the interest will become more open. If you also have an interest in this man, then try to maintain the topic of conversation. Then your life will interest him more and more, and he will listen to your answers very carefully.

His personal life ceases to be a secret to you

He likes to tell you about his childhood and past experiences. Share your memories of your school years, friends, parents. This behavior directly indicates that he has great respect for you and is ready to reveal many personal topics to you.

Openness and sentimentality

Most women do not trust men who say beautiful, heart-warming words. But psychologists have noticed that men in love are really open in their feelings and sentimental.

So, if you notice the manifestation of such feelings in your chosen one, do not rush to draw negative conclusions, since it is quite possible that these feelings are sincere.

A man offers to be your friend

This is one of the signs that a man wants to be one step closer to you. After all, it has long been noted that true friendship can easily develop into love, and during this time feelings ripen deep in the mind. At this stage, it is very important to exchange your opinions to show your sincere trust.

A man's entire personal life is revealed to you

When a man has serious intentions regarding you, he happily introduces you to his family and friends, friends and acquaintances. His phone number and personal photos are no longer a secret to you. He is not afraid to tell you about his personal acquaintances and about such moments from his life that can only be discussed with a loved one.

A man remembers any, even insignificant detail from your life

The male brain is designed in such a way that it records any details associated with the object of love. Therefore, it will not be difficult for him to remember your birthday, your favorite perfume or flowers. Even if you gave him this information in passing, without thinking, he will still remember everything. So this sign clearly indicates serious intentions towards you.

A man notices every detail and shows interest in a woman

The manifestation of attention on his part will be noticeable constantly. If you changed your hairstyle or put on a beautiful dress, be sure that he will definitely notice and appreciate it. He will also react to a change in your mood and try to match your tone. A man in love will call you by name, and maybe find a harmonious replacement for it.

The issue of family relationships is not taboo for him

If a man is not interested in a long-term relationship, then he will avoid all questions about family life. With a man in love, you can discuss any topics about children, about a future family, about future prospects. He will be happy to support you in these matters.

Being patient with you

Not every man is ready to endure women’s whims, unpleasant and not always appropriate antics, strict statements, etc. But if he is in love, he will endure all this steadfastly and turn a blind eye to things that he simply would not tolerate from other women. But if you are not indifferent to this man, then you should not test his patience too much so that he does not lose interest in you.

Expressing your superiority

To show himself more worthy of your attention compared to other competitors, a man in love will demonstrate his main advantages. It could be wealth, strength, power.

Random encounters

Your meetings have become increasingly casual. Sometimes you notice him in the store or he started working out at the same gym where you do your training. Even if he says that these meetings are random, then more often this is not the case, since a man in love increasingly wants to be close to the object of his adoration.

Having familiarized yourself with all the signs, you can now correctly evaluate his actions and draw the right conclusions. And all we can do is wish you happiness and sincere love.

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